onehardlookMar 19, 20191 min readThe RopeI can't even begin to tell you how many relationships I have been in where I held on to hope with all my might until it was clear there...
onehardlookMar 19, 20191 min readThe Year of My UnravelingOne of my favorite articles by Brené Brown is about the "midlife unraveling". She talks about reaching a point in your life (usually...
onehardlookMar 5, 20191 min readAll in the FamilyWhat if past pain and trauma Compounds like interest? Does it take another lifetime to expel? They say pain is passed down Through the...
onehardlookFeb 25, 20191 min readSongbird#lovepoem #solitary #originalpoem #poetsandwriters #poetry #songbird #heartbreak #brokenhearted #poems #winter #lovehard...
onehardlookFeb 25, 20191 min readThe SpiralI wrote this poem the other day when I was spiraling back into codependency. Trying to hold on to something that doesn't want to be held...
onehardlookFeb 25, 20191 min readLine DrawingSometimes when I'm doing self-improvement work I beat myself up over things I have done wrong. But when the problem doesn't go away I...
onehardlookFeb 25, 20191 min readSmart Phone#lovehard #liveandlove #relationships #originalpoem #smartphone #poetsandwriters #thoughtsonlove #onehardlook #recovery #codependency...
onehardlookFeb 4, 20194 min readMilk from the Hardware StoreI'm incredibly lucky that I have some close girl friends that don't judge me and truly offer unconditional support through tough times. ...
onehardlookJan 18, 20193 min readLove & CodependencyAs I am writing this, I am watching the 2009 movie, He's Just Not That Into You. It reminds me of something I've heard often over the...
onehardlookJan 6, 20194 min readTherapyWhen I was younger I never would have imagined that I would become a cheerleader for therapy. Then a difficult situation that I had no...
onehardlookJan 3, 20196 min readPerfectionismOne hard look at perfectionism from infancy to adulthood. Saying Goodbye to Perfection “I think perfectionism is based on the obsessive...