onehardlookApr 28, 20193 minBelieve MeI wish I could have told you How and when they crossed the line When I became a piece of meat On which they tried to dine But I learned...
onehardlookFeb 27, 20194 minFibromyalgiaI can't remember a time when there wasn't pain or the ominous threat of pain. Some of my earliest memories are of holding my legs, under...
onehardlookFeb 26, 20197 minVertigoUntil you've experienced it, you have no idea. Vertigo may be just a movie title to you or your worst nightmare. It's unlike being...
onehardlookFeb 13, 20194 minThe Man with the Italian SockA little over eight years ago I was picking up my friend Jon*, from our friend Lisa's house. Lisa* had recently moved into a new house...
onehardlookFeb 4, 20194 minMilk from the Hardware StoreI'm incredibly lucky that I have some close girl friends that don't judge me and truly offer unconditional support through tough times. ...
onehardlookJan 25, 20194 minLosing a FriendEvery time I make a roasted chicken or fettuccine. When I make a mustard-olive oil sauce for steamed artichokes. When I think of...
onehardlookJan 18, 20193 minLove & CodependencyAs I am writing this, I am watching the 2009 movie, He's Just Not That Into You. It reminds me of something I've heard often over the...
onehardlookJan 16, 20194 minYouthOur culture is obsessed with youth. Everywhere you turn we are being sold anti-aging products and shown images of young models with no...
onehardlookJan 10, 20196 minSick DaysAs a young adult, I thought I was going to be dead by twenty-five. It didn't make me sad to think about, it's just something I had...
onehardlookJan 8, 20194 minSpiritualityWhen I was a child, probably around 4th grade, my parents told me that I had to explore religion. They suggested Sunday School but said...
onehardlookJan 5, 20195 minLonelinessAs I was thinking about perfectionism the other day I started thinking about the fear that causes the need to be perfect. If a major...
onehardlookJan 3, 20196 minPerfectionismOne hard look at perfectionism from infancy to adulthood. Saying Goodbye to Perfection “I think perfectionism is based on the obsessive...
onehardlookDec 29, 20181 minA New Year, A New Change in Gear2019 is fast approaching and I'm checking off a resolution a few days early. New Year, New Change in Gear 2018 was a doozy. I went into...