onehardlookMar 19, 20191 min readThe RopeI can't even begin to tell you how many relationships I have been in where I held on to hope with all my might until it was clear there...
onehardlookMar 19, 20191 min readThe Year of My UnravelingOne of my favorite articles by Brené Brown is about the "midlife unraveling". She talks about reaching a point in your life (usually...
onehardlookMar 12, 20191 min readThe VisitorGrief is dark and powerful and rears its ugly head with no warning. It isn't something to be afraid of, however. I embrace grief as a...
onehardlookMar 11, 20191 min readSpirit AnimalEver since I was a little girl I have been drawn to herons. If there is one within sight, I will find it. When I do, I immediately feel...
onehardlookMar 5, 20191 min readAll in the FamilyWhat if past pain and trauma Compounds like interest? Does it take another lifetime to expel? They say pain is passed down Through the...
onehardlookFeb 26, 20197 min readVertigoUntil you've experienced it, you have no idea. Vertigo may be just a movie title to you or your worst nightmare. It's unlike being...
onehardlookFeb 25, 20191 min readSongbird#lovepoem #solitary #originalpoem #poetsandwriters #poetry #songbird #heartbreak #brokenhearted #poems #winter #lovehard...
onehardlookFeb 25, 20191 min readThe SpiralI wrote this poem the other day when I was spiraling back into codependency. Trying to hold on to something that doesn't want to be held...
onehardlookFeb 25, 20191 min readLine DrawingSometimes when I'm doing self-improvement work I beat myself up over things I have done wrong. But when the problem doesn't go away I...
onehardlookFeb 25, 20191 min readSmart Phone#lovehard #liveandlove #relationships #originalpoem #smartphone #poetsandwriters #thoughtsonlove #onehardlook #recovery #codependency...